This blog is mostly about fashion and hair and beauty. If you come here often, you probably know that is mostly what you’re going to get. And I think that’s great. I believe that we can make ourselves pretty, take time for ourselves, and put effort into our looks. I don’t believe that it is vain. I believe it can be vain, but when kept under control I think it’s healthy.
What I haven’t done a good job at talking about is how this can relate to you personally. It’s so easy to look at someone on a screen and say “If I had their____ (fill in the blank) then I would be beautiful. Or confident. Or stylish.” I really don’t want you to feel like this when you come to my site. I want to encourage you to embrace your beautiful, however that looks for you!
I want so bad to reach out to these women and say WHY?! Why do you need that person’s good trait? What’s wrong with yours? What about you is beautiful? What about you do you love?
I think it’s a great thing to look at a website and learn from what they have to say, get fashion advice or makeup tips, but we need to stop comparing and being so hard on ourselves. Women – all of us! — need to embrace our own beauty. The Creator of the universe made you the way you are! Embrace the beauty he’s given you, inside & out, and live with confidence!
I saw this video while browsing around on Facebook and the girl who is speaking does so well in articulating this all using her own experiences. I just had to share it with you.
Like my husband always says – “If I don’t love me, then who will?”
Let’s stop comparing and start encouraging! Find another women and encourage her today. I am sure she will be so grateful!